You’ve been reading all the books, enrolled in all the courses that YouTube university has so generously provided and have all the freebie downloads your email can contain but it just isn’t coming together like you had imagined. That’s the tricky thing with taking advice from people that aren’t qualified to handle your intimate bits. You’re tired of giving your power away and putting yourself last and people pleasing, because you lose a little bit of yourself with every “it’s okay” you whisper. I want more for you.
I still remember the days that I would ask my power away, allowing others thoughts to replay in my mind like a broken record. Nothing I was doing aligned with who I was at my core because I was in the business of pleasing everyone else first. I hated it there. I would continuously tell myself, “Today is the last day!” but I would cave at the first opportunity to show up as my authentic self.
It wasn’t until I fully committed to my personal development that I began to see little shifts become lasting behaviours. The time, energy and financial investments I was willing to make in the name of growth reflected the changes I was seeing. The dream I had for my life started to become evident and manifest.
I stopped believing that I needed someone to hold my hand or lead the way once I empowered myself with tools and a blueprint to build my own success kit. Gone were the days of taking back seat roles knowing I was more than qualified to deliver like the women I admired.
I realized the power was within, it just needed a bit of nurturing.
For the past 6 years I have been engulfed in and dedicated to Personal Development after committing to ending a cycle of abuse and dysfunction. I dove face first into the world of Empowerment Brunches, webinars and seminars in stuffy hotel rooms. However, I noticed a need for relatable coaches that gave a crap about the things they were teaching. I needed someone with as much heart as they had hustle and a community where black and brown women could be met with real life experience, not regurgitated rhetorics. Arguably, WOC are consistently praised for their ability to handle unreasonable amounts of weight. Who teaches us how to say no to badge of honour known as burnout?
EQ is the single strongest predictor of performance, and it serves as the foundation for a variety of other critical skills like time management, communication and customer service.
Today I am a Certified Life Coach specializing in Emotional Intelligence. I’ve amassed years of experience working with women in transition and have a certification in REBT(Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy). I’ve worked with women just like you hoping to leave dead-end relationships and positions to find more fulfillment in their daily lives. I understand that your mindset is your biggest critic and am here to teach you how to make it your best friend. I believe that when any woman makes it out of the trenches it becomes her duty to leave the ladder behind.
Having little control over your emotions which leads to short-lived growth
Romanticizing what you could become if you got out of your own way
Blocking your own opportunities and closing doors due to emotional instability and self sabotage
Feeling a lack of fulfillment, joy and overall alignment with your current situation
Saying to yes to opportunities that do not support your core values or your goals and leave you burnt out
Showing up as your authentic self and owning who you are – no more proving your worth
Understanding your core values & priorities/what you need to thrive and applying that knowledge to stay productive
Taking the initiative to be a self-starter and see your goals through to the end
Believing that abundance is your birthright and owning your gifts
Follow a customized plan with the next best steps for you to take to see momentum and and lasting progress
Together we’ll go through a series of personal development activities designed to help you better understand who you were before adversity rudely interrupted. We aren’t fixing anything because you aren’t broken – you just forgot who you are. This module focuses on introspection to develop confidence, competency & allow you to return home to self.
Now that we know what you’re made of and which environments allow you to thrive, we identify the hurdles you’ll have to overcome on your journey. We begin with assessing habits and/or behaviours that have been hindering your progress. We disrupt your habit loop to balance your life account to limit energy leaks, avoid energy vampires and reclaim your power.
Using approved REBT mindset techniques we dispel the tiny, yet overwhelming voice in the back of your mind that prevents you from coming into your power and owning your voice. We ignore who you were taught to, while dispelling social constructs that keep you playing small. Getting to the root of what you truly want, which is the first step to living the life you desire.
With a new sense of self and a deeper understanding of how traumatic life events influence how we see ourselves, we can write a new story. Together we create an empowering narrative that not only serves you but give you something to look forward to in the morning. The story you identify with is more important than the idea of you that other people expect you to align with.
Everything becomes figureoutable when you break the mountains down into smaller pieces.
Having an actionable plan builds confidence, routine & helps you establish boundaries. With a solid plan in place you hold yourself accountable to following through while removing the temptation to slip back into people-pleaser mode.
The last module focuses on healthy and effective ways to communicate boundaries, mitigating the pitfalls in your action plan & a 14-day check in. We can’t predict the future but we’ve done the work to identify and address what’s standing in the way. It’s important to maintain the momentum we create together. You didn’t do all this work to stay the same and it’s natural for you to resist the desire to change. We’ve got this glow up thing under control.
How does the program work?
Each client is given access to their client portal where homework and relevant materials are sent as we work through the 6 frameworks and methodologies. At the end of each two week period we have our pre-scheduled call via Zoom. Recordings of each call are sent to the client as well.
How do the bi-weekly calls work?
Every two weeks homework will be provided to you to work through at your own pace. At the end of each two week period we get on a call to further discuss what you’ve actioned, your results and feedback from Danielle is shared at this time. You have the opportunity to ask as many questions as you need to within the hour allotted for your session.
How much 1:1 time will I get? I don’t want to feel as if we’re rushing anything.
2 Hours each month for 3 months consecutively. With unlimited email access + M to F messaging via the Voxer App.
What if I’m not struggling with mindset, emotional intelligence or self sabotage?
If you need support and guidance while you’re in a period of transition the Breakthrough Blueprint can help you identify any blindspots you may be overlooking that can hinder your progress. A lot of the time when we hire support, we know many of the things we’re supposed to be doing but we need a bridge to go from the idea stage to the dream being materialized.
What happens if I’m still feeling stuck at the end of the program?
As we begin to peel back the layers while working together we may uncover more than one area that needs to be tackled to see a complete transformation. Your 30-Day Action Plan is to help you maintain the momentum we’ve created while working together. This will include actionable items that you can take from day 1 to day 30 to help you continue to see lasting results.